‘It will save lives’: Pa. parents turn pain into purpose after losing son to suicide

ADAMS COUNTY, Pa. (WHTM) – A Midstate family is turning their pain into purpose after losing their 15-year-old son, Jonny Tomasello, to suicide.

“I want him to be remembered as a kind soul who deserved so much better than what he got,” Jonny’s mom, Natalie Tomasello said. “He loved everybody and was as kind as could be.”

Jonny was a Freshman at Bermudian Springs High School in Adams County when he died. His parents, Natalie and Nick Tomasello, said he was bullied relentlessly. At times, it got physical.

“And they were calling him names related to his autism and his liability,” Natalie said. “The ‘R-word’ was thrown around a lot.”

Jonny’s parents told teachers, coaches and school officials but said their pleas for help were ignored.

“We trusted the adults there,” Nick said. “We trusted the staff to take care of our kids.”

Natalie and Nick are now backing a bill sponsored by Senator Doug Mastriano (R-Adams/Franklin Counties). It’s known as ‘Jonny’s Law.’

“Jonny’s law would put stricter compliance and rules in place [so] that when a parent, coach or administrator gets a bullying complaint, they have to take it seriously,” Mastriano said.

If the school fails to act, they could face civil repercussions or criminal charges.

“It will not change lives, it will save lives,” Natalie said. “And if we can save one life in our son’s name, then maybe we can find some peace.”

The School District and broader Bermudian Springs community grieves alongside the Tomasello family for the loss of their son. While we cannot share information related to any specific student, the District is committed to effectively responding to student bullying and supporting the mental health needs of all students. Students and families are encouraged to reach out to the District with any concerns of bullying or mental health needs and they will be supported with the comprehensive services available.”
Bermudian Springs School District Superintendent Dr. Brad Sterner