Two decades ago, I was part of a group of nerds who got really interested in how each other managed to do what we did. The effort was kicked off by Danny OâBrien, who called it âLifehackingâ and I played a small role in getting that term popularized:
https://craphound.com/lifehacksetcon04.txt
While we were all devoted to sharing tips and tricks from our own lives, many of us converged on an outside expert, David Allen, and his bestselling book âGetting Things Doneâ (GTD, to those in the know):
https://gettingthingsdone.com/
GTD is a collection of relatively simple tactics for coping with, prioritizing, and organizing the things you want to do. Many of the methods relate to organizing your own projects, using a handful of context-based to-do lists (e.g. a list of things to do at the office, at home, while waiting in line, etc). These lists consist of simple tasks. Those tasks are, in turn, derived from another list, of âprojectsâ â things that require more than one task, which can be anything from planning dinner to writing a novel to helping your kid apply to university.
The point of all this list-making isnât to do everything on the lists. While these lists do help you remember what to do next, what theyâre really good for is deciding what not to do â at all. The promise of GTD is that it will help you consciously choose not to do some of the things you set out to accomplish. This is in contrast to how most of us operate: we have a bunch of things we want to do, and we end up doing the things that are easiest, or at top of mind, even if theyâre not the most important things.
GTD recognizes that you can be very âproductiveâ (in the sense of getting many things done) and still not do the things that you really wanted to do. You know what this is like: you finish a Sunday with an organized sock-drawer, all your pennies neatly rolled, the trash-can in your car emptiedâŚand no work at all on that novel youâre hoping to write.
You canât do everything, but you can control what you donât do, rather than just defaulting into completing a string of trivial, meaningless tasks and leaving the big stuff on the sidelines. Organizing your own tasks and projects is a hugely powerful habit, and one thatâs made a world of difference to my personal and professional life.
But while good to-do lists can take you very far in life, they have a hard limit: other people. Almost every ambitious thing you want to do involves someone elseâs contribution. Even the most solitary of projects can be derailed if your tax accountant misses a key email and you end up getting audited or paying a huge penalty.
Thatâs where the other kind of GTD list comes in: the list of things youâre waiting for from other people. I used to be assiduous in maintaining this list, but then the pandemic struck and no one was meeting any of their commitments, and I just gave up on it, and never went backâŚuntil about a month ago. Returning to these lists (theyâre sometimes called âsuspense filesâ) made me realize how many of the problems â some hugely consequential â in my life could have been avoided if Iâd just gone back to this habit earlier.
My suspense file is literally just some lines partway down a text file that lives on my desktop called todo.txt that has all my to-dos as well. Hereâs some sample entries from my suspense file:
WAITING EMAIL Sean about ENSHITTIIFCATION manuscript deadline 10/24/24
WAITING EMAIL Russ about missing royalty statement 10/12/24
WAITING EMAIL Alice about Christmas vacation hotel 10/8/24 10/20/24
WAITING EMAIL Ted about Sacramento event 8/12/24 9/5/24 10/5/24 10/20/24WAITING CALL LA County about mosquito abatement 10/25/24
WAITING CALL School attendance officer about London trip 10/18/24WAITING MONEY EFF reimbusement for taxi to staff retreat $34.98 10/7/24
WAITING SHIPMENT New Neal Stephenson novel from Bookshop.org 10/23/24
This is as simple as things could possibly be! I literally just type âWAITING,â then a space, then the category of thing Iâm waiting for, then a few specifics, then the date. When I follow up on an item, I add the date of the followup to the end of the line. If I get some details that I might need to reference later (say, a tracking code for a shipment, or a date for an event Iâm trying to organize), Iâll add that, too, as it comes up. Creating a new entry on this list takes 10-25 seconds. When someone gets back to me, I just delete that line.
That is literally it.
Every day, or sometimes a couple of times a day, I will just run my eyes up and down this list and see if thereâs anything thatâs unreasonably overdue, and then Iâll send a reminder or make a followup call. In the example above, you can see that Iâve been chasing Ted about Sacramento for months now (this is a fake entry â no plans to go to Sacto at the moment, sorry):
WAITING EMAIL Ted about Sacramento event 8/12/24 9/5/24 10/5/24 10/20/24
So now Iâve emailed Ted four times. Maybe my emailâs going to his spam, and so I could try emailing a friend of Ted and ask them to check whether heâs getting my messages. But maybe Tedâs trying to send me a message here â heâs just not interested in doing the event after all. Or maybe Ted is available, but heâs so snowed under that heâs in danger of fumbling it, and I need to bring in some help if I want it to happen.
All of these are possibilities, and the fact that Iâm tracking this means that I now get to make an active decision: cancel the gig or double down on making sure it happens. Without this list, the gig would just die by default, forgotten by both of us. Maybe thatâs OK, but I canât tell you how many times Iâve run into someone who said, âDammit, I just remembered I was supposed to email you about getting that thing done and I dropped the ball. Shit! I really was looking forward to that. Is it too late now?â Often it is too late. Even if itâs not, the work of picking up the pieces and starting over is much more than just following through on the original plan.
Restarting my suspense file made me realize how many of the (often expensive or painful) fumbles Iâve had since the pandemic were the result of me not noticing that someone else hadnât gotten back to me. In essence, a suspense file is a way for me to manage other peopleâs to-do lists.
Let me unpack that. By âmanaging other peopleâs to-do lists,â I donât mean that Iâm deciding for other people what they will and wonât do (that would be both weird and gross). I mean that Iâm making sure that if someone else fails to do something we were planning together, itâs because they decided not to do it, not because they forgot. As GTD teaches us, the real point of a to-do list isnât just helping us remember what to do â itâs helping us choose what weâre not going to do.
This is not an imposition, itâs a kindness. The point of a suspense file isnât to nag others into living up to their commitments, itâs to form a network of support among collaborators where we all help one another make those conscious choices about what weâre not going to do, rather than having the stuff we really value slip away because we forgot about it.
I have frequent collaborators whom I know to be incapable of juggling too many things at once, and my suspense file has helped me hone my sense of when it would be appropriate to ask them if they want to do something together and when to leave them be. The suspense file helps me dial in how much I rely on each person in my life (relying on someone isnât the same as valuing them â and indeed, one way to value someone is to only rely on them for things theyâre able to do, rather than putting them in a position of feeling bad for failing you).
Lifehacking gets a bad rap, and justifiably so. Many of the tips that traffick as âlifehacksâ are trivial or stupid or both. Whatâs more, too much lifehacking can paint you into a corner where youâve hacked any flexibility out of your life:
https://locusmag.com/2017/11/cory-doctorow-how-to-do-everything-lifehacking-considered-harmful/
But ever since Danny coined the term âlifehack,â back in 2004, Iâve been cultivating daily habits that have let me live the life I wanted to live, accomplishing the things I wanted to accomplish. I figured out how to turn daily writing into a habit and now Iâve written more than 30 books:
https://www.locusmag.com/Features/2009/01/cory-doctorow-writing-in-age-of.html
A daily habit of opening a huge, ever-tweaked collection of tabs has made me smarter about the news, helped me keep tabs on my friends, helped me find fraudsters who were trying to steal my identity, and ensured that all those Kickstarter rewards and other long-delayed, erratic shipments didnât slip through the cracks:
https://pluralistic.net/2024/01/25/today-in-tabs/#unfucked-rota
Daily habits are superpowers. Once something is a habit, you get it for free. GTD turns on decomposing big, daunting projects into bite-sized, trackable tasks. I have a bunch of spaces around the house â my office, my closet, the junk sheds down the side of the house, our tiki bar â that I used to clean out once or twice a year. Each one was all-day, sweaty, dirty job, and for most of the year, all of those spaces were a dusty, disorganized mess.
A month ago, I added a new daily task: spend five minutes cleaning one space. I did the bar first, and after two weeks, Iâd taken down every tchotchke and bottle and polished it, reorganizing the undercounter spaces where things pile up:
Now Iâm working through my office. Ever day, Iâm dusting a bookshelf and combing through it for discards to stick in our Little Free Library. Takes less than five minutes most day, and Iâll be done in about three weeks, when Iâll move on to my closet, then the side of the house, and then back to the bar. A daily short break where I get away from my computer and make my living and working environments nicer is a wonderful habit to cultivate.
Iâm 53 years old now. I was 33 when I started following Getting Things Done. In that time, Iâve gotten a lot done, but whatâs even more relevant is that I got a lot of things not done, too â things that I consciously chose not to abandon. Figuring out what you want to do, and then keeping it on track â in manageable, healthy, daily rhythms that bring along the other people you rely on â may not be the whole secret to a fulfilled life, but itâs certainly a part of it.
How Google is Killing Bloggers and Small Publishers â And Why https://www.justapack.com/how-google-is-killing-bloggers-and-small-publishers-and-why/
Bluesky is not decentralized https://beige.party/@possibledog/113367977656537478 (h/t Hacker News)
#20yrago Printer cartridges arenât copyrighted works https://web.archive.org/web/20041102085343/http://lawgeek.typepad.com/lawgeek/2004/10/static_control_.html
#15yrsago Italian politician sues 4000+ YouTube commenters https://web.archive.org/web/20091030044651/http://www.antoniodipietro.com/en/2009/10/we_will_defend_you_all_from_cu.html
#15yrago Terrified London cops spending millions gathering useless intelligence on peaceful protestors https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/libertycentral/2009/oct/26/police-protest-data-protection
#10yrsago Edward Snowden interviewed by Lawrence Lessig https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o_Sr96TFQQE
#10yrsago CHP officer who stole and shared nude photos of traffic-stop victim claims âitâs a gameâ https://www.cbsnews.com/sanfrancisco/news/east-bay-chp-officer-accused-of-stealing-nude-photos-says-its-game-for-police-california-highway-patrol-sean-harrington/
#5yrsago âAffordancesâ: a new science fiction story that climbs the terrible technology adoption curve https://slate.com/technology/2019/10/affordances-cory-doctorow-sf-story-algorithmic-bias-facial-recognition.html
#5yrsago Nearly all Americansâ taxes will go down under Medicare for All https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2019/oct/25/medicare-for-all-taxes-saez-zucman
#5yrsago Researchersâ budget blown when a migrating eagleâs tracker chip connects to an Iranian cellular tower and sends expensive SMSes https://www.bbc.com/news/world-europe-50180781
#5yrsago New Hampshire state Rep John Potucek kills Right to Repair bill: âcellphones are throwawaysâŚjust get a new oneâ https://www.vice.com/en/article/lawmaker-kills-repair-bill-because-cellphones-are-throwaways/
#1yrago Amazon Alexa is a graduate of the Darth Vader MBA https://pluralistic.net/2023/10/26/hit-with-a-brick/#graceful-failure
International Cooperative Alliance (New Delhi), Nov 24
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ISSA-LA Holiday Celebration keynote (Los Angeles), Dec 18
https://issala.org/event/issa-la-december-18-dinner-meeting/
Speciale intervista a Cory Doctorow (Digitalia)
https://digitalia.fm/744/
Was There Ever An Old, Good Internet? (David Graeber Institute)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T6Jlxx5TboE
âThe Lost Cause:â a solarpunk novel of hope in the climate emergency, Tor Books (US), Head of Zeus (UK), November 2023 (http://lost-cause.org). Signed, personalized copies at Dark Delicacies (https://www.darkdel.com/store/p3007/Pre-Order_Signed_Copies%3A_The_Lost_Cause_HB.html#/)
âThe Internet Conâ: A nonfiction book about interoperability and Big Tech (Verso) September 2023 (http://seizethemeansofcomputation.org). Signed copies at Book Soup (https://www.booksoup.com/book/9781804291245).
âRed Team Bluesâ: âA grabby, compulsive thriller that will leave you knowing more about how the world works than you did before.â Tor Books http://redteamblues.com. Signed copies at Dark Delicacies (US): and Forbidden Planet (UK): https://forbiddenplanet.com/385004-red-team-blues-signed-edition-hardcover/.
âChokepoint Capitalism: How to Beat Big Tech, Tame Big Content, and Get Artists Paid, with Rebecca Giblinâ, on how to unrig the markets for creative labor, Beacon Press/Scribe 2022 https://chokepointcapitalism.com
âAttack Surfaceâ: The third Little Brother novel, a standalone technothriller for adults. The Washington Post called it âa political cyberthriller, vigorous, bold and savvy about the limits of revolution and resistance.â Order signed, personalized copies from Dark Delicacies https://www.darkdel.com/store/p1840/Available_Now%3A_Attack_Surface.html
âHow to Destroy Surveillance Capitalismâ: an anti-monopoly pamphlet analyzing the true harms of surveillance capitalism and proposing a solution. https://onezero.medium.com/how-to-destroy-surveillance-capitalism-8135e6744d59?sk=f6cd10e54e20a07d4c6d0f3ac011af6b) (signed copies: https://www.darkdel.com/store/p2024/Available_Now%3A__How_to_Destroy_Surveillance_Capitalism.html)
âLittle Brother/Homelandâ: A reissue omnibus edition with a new introduction by Edward Snowden: https://us.macmillan.com/books/9781250774583; personalized/signed copies here: https://www.darkdel.com/store/p1750/July%3A__Little_Brother_%26_Homeland.html
âPoesy the Monster Slayerâ a picture book about monsters, bedtime, gender, and kicking ass. Order here: https://us.macmillan.com/books/9781626723627. Get a personalized, signed copy here: https://www.darkdel.com/store/p2682/Corey_Doctorow%3A_Poesy_the_Monster_Slayer_HB.html#/.
Unauthorized Bread: a middle-grades graphic novel adapted from my novella about refugees, toasters and DRM, FirstSecond, 2025
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